A ex girlfriend of mine showed me a swingers site full of freaks to check out. I posted up a ad and the offers have been pouring in.

One from the following lady named breanna, not her real name but for this purpose incase someone from my home town knows her I will keep her identity a secret.

I am in the seduction mode with her. My convo will show me feeling her out. We actually do speak the same language though so this will be a plus for me.

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zenmack: it's mefrom
Breanna: hey hun

zenmack: how are you doing
Breanna:
zenmack: it was nice hearing from you
Breanna: good and you?
zenmack: wonderful. just finished working with a few clients and I'm going to finish my speech for tommorrow and sit in the sun
zenmack: for a few hours
Breanna: very cool..what do you do for work?

SHOWING WHAT THAT OTHER SIDE THAT WOMEN LOOK FOR.

zenmack: I own a personal training studio
Breanna: very nice
zenmack: yeah, it's one of my passions
zenmack: how about you
Breanna: I am a nurse part time and own a club
zenmack: club?
zenmack: what is that?
zenmack: I'm new to that site
Breanna: www.*
zenmack: ok brb
Breanna: k
zenmack: very nice site

BASIC FACT FINDING AND DROPPING A SMALL COMPLIMENT:

zenmack: you organize private parties in your location
zenmack: and you charge for membership I take it
Breanna: yes
zenmack: lucrative
zenmack: your location is in the bay area?
Breanna: it is good yes but it is here in sac
zenmack: ok
zenmack: I liked how you put for fit into your description
Breanna: ???
zenmack: on the main page
Breanna: oh ok ty
zenmack: the wording is good
Breanna: ty I wrote it
zenmack:
zenmack: you did a good job on the whole site. I'm working on a website myself
zenmack: **.com
Breanna: I will have to check it out when your done
zenmack: but I'm selling abdominal workout programs online with music and all that
zenmack: I will email you a sample
Breanna: oh wow....see no wonder you look so young
zenmack: lol
zenmack: thank you
Breanna: let me ask you a question....off the subject just need an opinion
zenmack: ok
Breanna: What is the cardinal rule about friends sleeping with ex's?
zenmack: is this a test question
zenmack: my rule is
zenmack: I would never touch an ex's x
Breanna: lol
zenmack: or friends ex
Breanna: see Im right!
zenmack: right about?
Breanna: my business partner i introduced her to my ex online to help him with something and they started planning to meet...
Breanna: I said
Breanna: out of respect for me you would not go there if your my friend
Breanna: she doesnt see it that way
zenmack: hmmm I see

WOMEN LOVE A SIGN OF INTELLIGENCE IN BLACK MEN:

zenmack: business makes for strange bedfellows
zenmack: I like to keep business just that
Breanna: yeah well i am looking for another venue to host my parties at
zenmack: I've done the mixing before
zenmack: and it leads to trouble
Breanna: exactly and it has
zenmack: uh oh
Breanna: it sucks
zenmack: I think maybe because your in the lifestyle she thinks it's ok
Breanna: yes that is why
zenmack: cause you would of allowed it before
zenmack: the break up
zenmack: but for them to date
zenmack: ohh hell no
Breanna: exactly
zenmack: then you gotta see his ass all the time
zenmack: lol
Breanna: lol

ESTABLISHING THAT I DO HAVE BOUNDRIES AND SOME MORALS EVEN IF I TRULY DO NOT:

zenmack: tell her NO! from me also
zenmack: don't do it
zenmack: it's not worth it
Breanna: she says she does not want to date him just fuck him and if i was there cool...but 1 on 1 no im not ok with
zenmack: and he is doing it just to probably get back at you
Breanna: yeah he is
zenmack: and she doesn't see that
Breanna: ok anyway enough of that
zenmack: what is she daft?
Breanna: yes she is selfish
zenmack: yeah I can feel your blood pressure rising
Breanna: lol
zenmack: that angry latina coming out
Breanna: yes indeed
zenmack: ahahaha

TEST TO SEE HOW TRULY INTERESTED IN ME SHE IS:

zenmack: well I know your a busy businesswoman so I won't take up anymore of your time
Breanna: no it is ok
Breanna: So have you played in the lifestyle before?
zenmack: no
zenmack: I've done the scene
zenmack: but never publicly
Breanna: What intrigues you?
zenmack: good question
zenmack: finding passionate women to make love too
zenmack: which would seem counter productive
zenmack: but as I'm learning in the forum
zenmack: they are there
zenmack: it's not just a sex free for all
Breanna: counter productive how?
Breanna: no your right
zenmack: well I had thought that with that type of scene you would have to be a bit
zenmack: disconnected
zenmack: or so I was told by my ex
zenmack: who showed me the site
zenmack: she stated that she had to disconnect
zenmack: in order to exist
Breanna: you do somewhat
zenmack: on that level
Breanna: but you really connect with your partner too

WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT CONNECTION AND SHIT WOMEN WILL EAT IT UP LIKE PEANUT BUTTER!

zenmack: that is what draws me
Breanna: it is the ultimate rush
zenmack: is it
zenmack: ?
zenmack: how so?
Breanna: To have that animalistic rawness of the sexual build up between all parties and to see and hear my partner pleasuring another....it is very....well ....wow
zenmack: I see
zenmack: you must be able to plug in
zenmack: tune into the energy
zenmack: and ride it
Breanna: ye
Breanna: yes
zenmack: that would be interesting
zenmack: to experience
zenmack: what do you feel when your tapped in
Breanna: it is good when your with someone who has your heart
zenmack: a raw rush
zenmack: yes it is
zenmack: I know that one
Breanna: just a rush that i cannot explain in words
zenmack: I'm trying to imagine the feeling
zenmack: step into your head
zenmack: and see through your eyes

I CAN TAKE A HINT!

Breanna: It is something you have to experience first hand
zenmack: yes
zenmack: I will
zenmack: I've gotten a ton of offers from that site
zenmack: but I haven't explored any

HER SPITTING SOME GAME AT ME:

Breanna: because your handsome
zenmack: husbands wanting me to pleasure their wives
zenmack: lol, thank you again
Breanna: yw
Breanna: And they figure your well endowed too
zenmack: and you know what I say about your extra-ordinary good looks brandi
zenmack: lol
zenmack: yeah that too
zenmack: but not extra well endowed
zenmack: not sportin 10's
Breanna: no no just endowed is perfect lol
zenmack: lol
zenmack:

GETTING READY TO SET HER UP WITH A BIT MORE ABOUT MY SEXUAL PROWESS. CONVERSATIONS ALL HEAD IN THE SAME DIRECTION AND IF YOU CAN TAP INTO THE FLOW YOU CAN PREDICT WHEN SEX WILL COME UP!

Breanna: so how can you possibly be almost 50....no way
zenmack: yeah that's what I say to myself
zenmack: almost 50?
zenmack: I don't feel it
zenmack: I have the sex drive of a teenager just about
Breanna: wow
zenmack: but Ihave noticed a wanning
zenmack: I used to be able to cum as many as 7 times
zenmack: in a row
Breanna: omg
zenmack: now with the right partner only 2
zenmack: then I'm done
Breanna: 2 is good though
zenmack: (sigh)
zenmack: ohh well
Breanna: as long as it is a lil marathon before the 2 is over
zenmack: definately
zenmack: oh yeah
zenmack: I come from the old school
zenmack: please your woman first
Breanna: So...divorced? Kids? etc lol exactly
zenmack: then time your orgasm with hers
zenmack: yes and yes
zenmack: 4 boys
Breanna: how old?
zenmack: my yahoo is stalling for some reason
zenmack: 29 27 25 20
zenmack: 1 grandson of 5
Breanna: oh wow
zenmack: yeah just call me Daddy
Breanna: Oh daddy....lol
zenmack: lol
zenmack: and you?

WHAT DID I LEARN BELOW…SHE WILL RESPOND TO MY FAVORIT WORD DADDY! THAT TELLS ME A LOT ABOUT HER SEXUALITY. WE ARE OF THE SAME COIN!

Breanna: I like that so dont tease
zenmack: you and I speak the same language then
Breanna: divorced, 3 children 2 girls ages 16 and 15 and my son is 12
Breanna: lol
zenmack: good for you

DROPING A LITTLE NOTE OF UNDERSTANDING.

zenmack: raising kids is hard these days
Breanna: my son lives with my ex up north
Breanna: yes it is
zenmack: you must miss him
zenmack: are you from Sac?
Breanna: I miss him alot yes...No Im from LA origionally
zenmack: how long have you been up here
Breanna: 5 years now and you?
zenmack: since 1972
Breanna: where before that?

TESTING HER ABILITY TO FEEL WORDS:

zenmack: I live downtown due to all of the trees remind me of my home town of seattle
Breanna: oh cool

AND BACK TO THE CONVO SHE MISSED THE OPPORTUNITY TO RESPOND FROM A ARTISTIC POINT:

zenmack: japan twice north and south dakota and a little indian rez in cotton wood idaho]
zenmack: father was military
Breanna: oh so your well travelled
zenmack: used to be
zenmack: haven't much in later years
Breanna: i have never been
zenmack: I'm sorry to hear that

ESTABLISHING THAT I HAVE GOALS AND I’M GOING PLACES…ADDED VALUE:

zenmack: my goal is to start travelling again out of the country
Breanna: Its ok my kids are almost outta the house
zenmack: one of my son's up and moved to paris after meeing a girl on the internet and lived there married for 2 years
zenmack: now he moved to new york to experience it
Breanna: and?
Breanna: still married?
zenmack: they divorced
zenmack:
Breanna: thats sad
zenmack: but thankfully no kids cause that is a long way to travell to see them
zenmack: my father has a son there and son's all over the place for that matter
Breanna: yes it is
Breanna: omg thats sad
zenmack: how long have you been into the scene
Breanna: So what intrigued you to write me? 19 yrs

STAYING AWAY FROM I WANNA FUCK YOU AND GOING INTO HER ARTISTIC MIND AGAIN WITH LACED COMPLIMENTS AND SHOWING THAT I POSSESS A LIKE MIND:

zenmack: Your looks and your photographs
zenmack: the way you posed
zenmack: your expressions
Breanna:
zenmack: your lips
Breanna: Did you get to see my other photos I opened them to you also
zenmack: I was looking at them imagining things in my head so I wanted to say I appreciated your photo's and yes I did thank you...
Breanna: yw
Breanna: So how can such a beautiful man as yourself be single?
Breanna: playa? j/k
zenmack: back to ya
zenmack: and actually yes I was at one time
Breanna: lol
zenmack: and I've been looking for a soul mate for about 5 years
Breanna: I am single by choice until my prince shows himself
zenmack: my last girlfriend I had believed was it
zenmack: prince of darkness
zenmack: beware
zenmack: lol
Breanna: prince with a kinky twist th at is ..lol
Breanna: hehehe
Breanna: so what happened to your last gf?
zenmack: uh huh your little she devil too
Breanna: thats me!
zenmack: lol
zenmack: I will show you what happened
Breanna: ???
zenmack: You are the biggest asshole jerk I have ever encountered in
my life and yet the greatest love too. I will never forget you.

zenmack: her words to me
Breanna: omg
Breanna: Wow.....why would she say that?

EDIT OUT MY PERSONAL LIFE INFO:

zenmack: well I'm about connection
zenmack: of hearts
Breanna: me too
zenmack: so I helped her learn how to connect love and sex

BLAH BLAH BLAH!

AND BACK TO THE GAME!

zenmack: you must be old school also
Breanna: so how long have you been divorced?
zenmack: your latin heratige
Breanna: yes
zenmack: can't spell today
zenmack: divorced long long ago
Breanna:
Breanna: do you want to find your soulmate and be married?
zenmack: it's hard finding passionate women to connect with
zenmack: yes and maybe
Breanna: It is hard to find a man like that honey not just a woman lol
zenmack: Wayne Dwyer stated that a soul mate is like a turd that won't flush
zenmack:

DROPING KNOWLEDGE AGAIN. SHOW THEM THAT YOUR WELL EDUCATED!

Breanna: omg lol
zenmack: all of the books that I've read and courses
zenmack: say something similar..a soul mate relationship will not be made in heaven
zenmack: it will challenge you and make you grow
zenmack: well I was challenged and I grew
Breanna: yes it will
zenmack: lol

A MAN IS A LEADER AND A TEACHER:

zenmack: as each relationship will make you grow and learn
zenmack: look at your relationship with your business partner
zenmack: it's stretching you
Breanna: This is true...but only as people get older do they seem to really understand relationships and communication
zenmack: reflecting your values back to you
zenmack: yes I agree
zenmack: when I was young and dumb and full of cum
zenmack: the only thing that I saw was my next fuck
Breanna: lol
Breanna: yeah most men do
zenmack: yeah
zenmack: it's in our gene program
zenmack: where as women are programmed for nuturing a family
Breanna: true, but why do some men feel the need to be playa's and some dont?
zenmack: I am reading a good book on genes right now called Instinct
zenmack: and the playa is getting bred out
zenmack: there really is a nice guy gene out there
zenmack: fermenting like mold on mankind
Breanna: wow really?
zenmack: lol
zenmack: a survival trait
zenmack: that is neccassary for our advanced civlilizations
Breanna: lol
zenmack: we can't be old gene people like me
Breanna: I see
zenmack: can you imagine
zenmack: man needs this nice guy who is super focused and will conform to the rules
Breanna: No I cant see that
zenmack: haven't you noticed a lack of masculinity in men
Breanna: Well my outlook on the lifestyle is something that people do nt understand either
Breanna: yes i have
zenmack: that too is being bred out

FORCING MY CONVO AND MOVING INMY DIRECTION. MEN TAKE HEED THIS IS WHAT WOMEN WANT!!! ESPECIALLY THOSE STRIPPER TYPE FREAKS THAT YOU GUYS CALL 10’S…

Breanna: I cannot stand a pussy no back bone man
zenmack: I'm sure folks don't ...and lol @ pussy men
Breanna: why is that?
zenmack: church and state
Breanna: For real though I like my man to treat me with resoect and as his partner, but by nature I like him to take charge in some aspects
zenmack: don't you think has alot to do with their not understanding
Breanna: no jealous or controlling...but do you know what I mean?
zenmack: I see

I HAVE NOT FALLEN DOWN TO HER CONTRACT. WHEN A WOMAN TELLS YOU WHAT SHE WANTS THAT IS CALLED A CONTRACT. ACCEPT IT AND YOU WILL HAVE TO ABIDE BY HER RULES. I ONLY STATE THAT I UNDERSTAND HER VIEW:

zenmack: and I understand your point of view
Breanna: Like when my best friend who is a guy tells me christina put him on restriction from sex...OMG man pin her ass down and take the pussy for god sakes man up lol
zenmack: lol
zenmack: OHHH HELL NO
zenmack: pussy restriction???
Breanna: hehehe
Breanna: yep
Breanna: her way of control

NEVER BE AFRAID TO STATE YOUR OWN OPINION.

zenmack: uhh no babgirl you will be dropping those panties and right now got dam it
Breanna: exactly my saying
zenmack: why cut off the hand that feed you...to spite your face
zenmack: or something like that
zenmack: sex should never be a tool like that
Breanna: because men these days take it
zenmack: yeah I know
Breanna: they let her dictate and cower down....I give him lectures all the time about it lmao
zenmack: he needs to grow sum nuts before his woman leaves for a real man!
Breanna: then these girls wonder why they stray hello?
zenmack: uh yeaaahh

I LOVE GETTING OLDER. FOR SOME REASON I CAN NOW PULL PROVERBS OUT OF MY HEAD THAT OLD FOLKS SAID WHEN I WAS A KID…MUST BE SOME KINDA AGE THING!

zenmack: you can only keep a dog chained down for so long
Breanna: I say have your differences and sort them out by talking,,, but damn it fuck it right daily and all will be good
zenmack: and not feed it
Breanna: true
zenmack: yeah
zenmack: each and every day
zenmack: and all day on sunday
Breanna: So....how did you feel when your ex was playing with another man with you in the lifestyle?
Breanna: lol
zenmack: she didn't do that
zenmack: nor did we
zenmack: she did that with her ex

SHE IS FEELING ME OUT TO SEE WHERE I STAND ON THAT WHOLE SCENE:

Breanna: ok so....most men are territorial by nature how do you think you would react?
zenmack: she kept him as a friend or flunky after it was over
zenmack: well the way you start is the way you finish
Breanna: hmmm
zenmack: if I were to of started with her that way
zenmack: it would of been cool
Breanna: oh ok

NOW TO TEST HER ASS WITH SOME SEXUAL THOUGHTS:

zenmack: I can't tell you how many times I hav eimagined her getting fucked
zenmack: by other men
Breanna: its very hot
zenmack: it makes me throb even just thinking about it
Breanna: lol
zenmack: makes my palms sweat
zenmack: my woman taking the direction of another man and opening to him
zenmack: giving her self to him
Breanna: why do you think that is?
zenmack: kissing him
zenmack: sets me into a whole nuther place
Breanna: (yahoo love bubble thingy)

zenmack: I never stopped to question why, just some quirk of my personality
zenmack: which is why I'm here
zenmack: also
Breanna: I see
zenmack: I have a friend out in colorado
zenmack: whom I told to go have sex with another man and photograph it
zenmack: then send me the photo's
zenmack: she did
Breanna: oh wow
zenmack: she and I have a different kind of friendship
zenmack: almost D/s
zenmack: but I'm not into that scene
Breanna: i see
Breanna: yeah me either
zenmack: I met her last june and haven't seen her since
zenmack: but we still talk online
Breanna: yeah i have friends like that also
zenmack: she is looking to be owned but in the old sense of belonging to a man body mind and soul
Breanna: oh no thank you lol
zenmack: alpha male and apha female stuff
zenmack: like wolves with only 1 mate for life
Breanna: thats a little too much for me
zenmack: lol

I DROP A SUBTLE HINT THAT WILL SPARK HER IMAGINATION ABOUT ME!

zenmack: you haven't found the right man yet...
Breanna: I d ont believe two people were only meant to have sex with just one another forever
zenmack: you know that is interesting to hear
Breanna: no...I just dont believe in that type of ownership...you lose your identity
zenmack: I'm beginning to believe that is growing
zenmack: in women also
zenmack: I know man wasn't made for that so that the species could survive
zenmack: but modern woman is now changing also
zenmack: yoruself as one example
Breanna: right
zenmack: new time new ways
zenmack:

DAM I THINK I MIGHT HAVE TO PUT HER ON MY TEAM FOR BACK UP SUNDAY SEX IN PLACE OF TANYA THE OLD EX WHOM I AM STILL FUCKING:

Breanna: I believe sharing is caring
zenmack: I've met women who claimed this
zenmack: and in the end they get attached
Breanna: I live by it
Breanna: well i am like no woman you have met
zenmack: dost thou tempt me
Breanna: seriously
zenmack: ok I will take you on your word for that
Breanna:

SOME WORDS SPIT AT HER WITH SEXUAL UNDERTONES:

zenmack: you are a woman that must be experienced
zenmack: delved into deeply
zenmack: tasted and ...
Breanna: I have many different layers to who I am
zenmack: I will bet that you do
Breanna: Here let me show you something brb
zenmack: many flavors
zenmack: ok
Breanna: http://www.myspace.com/

HER SELLING HERSELF TO ME NOW WHICH IS PRETTY OBVIOUS BY NOW!

zenmack: brb
Breanna: you can read about who I am...what my heart hold etc if you read the blogs of poetry to the right
Breanna: k
zenmack: I like your message on soulmates
Breanna: ty
Zenmack

EDIT OUT HER POETRY WHICH WAS ACTUALLY RIGHT ON POINT WITH MY VISION…HMMMM THIS IS GOING TO BE VERY INTERSTING
zenmack: yes
Breanna:
zenmack: WOW: EDIT OUTWORDS I KNOW YOU CATS CAN FIND ANYTHING ON THE NET SO SINCE I DO NOT TRUST YALL TO NOT TRY TO SALT MY GAME YOU CAN JUST IMAGINE IT:

I SHOW HER THAT I UNDERSTAND HER WORDS AND IT’S ONLY BECAUSE I REALLY DO!

zenmack: your speaking of astral travel?
Breanna: yes
zenmack:
Breanna: continue on lovr
Breanna: love
zenmack: you do speak my language
Breanna: told you
zenmack: .love to dance and all of the other little things that make me..
zenmack: interesting. I used to teach hip hop and other stuff
zenmack: dance to me is communication
zenmack: of your own sexuality and sensuality
zenmack: and sexual power
zenmack: Does he exist?
zenmack: yes that is the question
Breanna: i am not sure he does
zenmack: put it out there long enough and he will come
Breanna: i hold out hope
zenmack:

EDIT OUT ...lol
Breanna: lol
zenmack:
zenmack: I feel ya babygirl
zenmack: yes: EDIT
Breanna: yep
zenmack: Yet I EDIT…
zenmack: you are different from other women
Breanna: Keep reading

UHH NO…KEEP THE CONVO’S NOT TOO LONG AND LEAVE THEM WANTING MORE SO NOW WAS A GOOD TIME TO EJECT….PLUS SHE TRIED TO PASS A ORDER OVER TO ME:

zenmack: on that note I gotta jet out to run a errand I will bookmark your site if you don't mind I deeply want to feel your words
zenmack: I am on that site also by the same screen name
zenmack: I haven't looked at it in a long long time
Breanna: ok angel...hugs and kisses
zenmack: how about we chat another time?
Breanna: I would love that
zenmack: good cya soon
Breanna: bye hun